Former PANTERA bassist Rex Brown has broken his silence on the passing of the band’s drummer, Vinnie Paul Abbott.
Vinnie Paul reportedly died in his sleep at his home in Las Vegas on Friday, June 22. He was 54 years old.
Earlier today, Rex took to his personal Facebook page to make the following public post: “The last few days have been very difficult and painful. At this time, I need more time to process my feelings.
“Thank you for all the love that has been sent. A formal press release will be coming shortly. Rest in peace, brother Vinnie!”
In a separate message in the comments section below his original post, Brown added: “I had to put something out socially. I am doing okay considering.
“This is not about me; it’s about the love, amazing times and friendship we had long ago.
“Everybody is going through their own strife with this.
“Pray for Jerry Abbott [father of Vinnie Paul and ‘Dimebag’ Darrell Abbott]. No man should have to bury two incredible sons in one lifetime.
“God bless. You will hear my deepest feelings in the days to come.”
A year ago, Vinnie Paul slammed Rex‘s memoir as “a bunch of mythology. Asked about the way he was depicted in Brown‘s 2013 book, “Official Truth, 101 Proof: The Inside Story Of Pantera”, in which the former PANTERA bassist referred to Vinnie as “a strange person” who “was always all about the ‘party, party, party'” but “only got laid maybe one out of ten times,” the drummer told the “Rover’s Morning Glory” syndicated radio show: “All I can say is that… I’ll refer to Philip‘s [Anselmo, former PANTERA singer] comment about Rex‘s book. A bunch of mythology, man. We don’t know where he came up with all this. More power to him, man.”
In a 2013 interview with MetalSucks, Anselmo was asked about the fact that Vinnie Paul was at times painted in a very negative light in Rex‘s book.
“I’m not sure that type of beating [on Vince] was necessary,” Anselmo said. “Vince is a difficult guy and was always a different type of guy. But did he deserve that type of beating? I don’t think so. It’s a shame.”
He continued: “Rex has many faults, just like anyone else. But it sure seems like he wants to put fault on other people to take away from his humanity. We’re all full of faults. Maybe it’s easier for some of us to admit.”
Brown defended his comments about Vinnie Paul during a 2013 interview with the “Energize With Lonn Friend” podcast. After revealing that he sent his book to Anselmo and Vinnie Paul, the bassist said: “Apparently, Vinnie isn’t very flattered by it. Vinnie, then, he can write his own fucking book, you know. With Philip, I haven’t heard any rebuttals, but I didn’t say anything in the book that wasn’t already out there, you know what I’m saying?!”
He added: “I think the reason they haven’t talked to me is ’cause it is the fucking truth. And sometimes you don’t wanna tell the truth. And I didn’t go out of my way to maliciously hurt any individual. But at the same time, if you’re gonna tell the truth, by God, you’d better be on the skinny. And I think Mark Eglinton [Rex‘s co-author], that did this thing with me, he really just kind of…. He put me down… You know how you have your dreams that you had in high school when you’re just… you’re in your underwear. That’s the way I felt with this book. If [you’re] not [being completely truthful in your memoir], I think it’s all a bunch of charade… And why would you wanna do that?”
On page 172 of “Official Truth, 101 Proof: The Inside Story Of Pantera”, Brown had the following to say about Vinnie Paul: “You need to understand that Vinnie is just a strange person — that’s all there is to it — and it’s either his way or the highway. I think he got most of that asshole-ishness from his old man, because in many ways they are very much alike. Vinnie was always all about the ‘party, party, party!’ and ‘eat that pussy!’ type of shit — to the extent that he thought he was fucking David Lee Roth. And him a drummer, can you imagine? But the truth is that he only got laid maybe one out of ten times and that’s if he was lucky. Being in a platinum-selling band is meant to be a head start when you’re trying to score with chicks, but he negated that by having no idea whatsoever how to treat or approach a woman. He’d just walk up and immediately start groping them, so it was no surprise that his strike rate was so pitiful. He acted like meeting him was a sexual audition and that just turned them off straightaway.” He continued: “And as if that wasn’t bad enough, when he didn’t get laid (ninety percent of the time, I’d estimate) he was the most miserable fucking guy on the planet. I just couldn’t live with him. He’d walk in the room in the morning and I’d just know. He’d be all snappy and pissed off with everyone and there was nothing anyone could do to change his mood. That became really boring.”
The last few days have been very difficult & painful. At this time, I need more time to process my feelings. Thank you…